Issue date: 2/9/10 Section: Features

Whether you plan on spending Valentine's Day with your long-time significant other or are planning on finally getting the nerve to ask out that special someone, you have to make sure you are prepared when the day arrives. With this list of ways to romance your sweetie, you are sure to have the best Valentine's Day ever.



10. Compile a Mix CD

I know what you are thinking. This is totally cliché, right? Making a mix CD for your special someone does not have to include just sappy Boys II Men songs (unless you want it to, of course). Choose songs that evoke special memories of the times you two have shared together: the first song you ever danced to, the theme song from your favorite show or just a tune you both love will mean more than just some song you choose off the "Top Romance Songs of All Time" list. To make it extra special, leave it in their car's CD player unnoticed or load it on their iPod, so that next time they turn it on, it is your playlist he or she will hear.



9. Prepare a Home-Cooked Meal

Although going out to a fancy restaurant is always nice, preparing a meal yourself showcases just how much that special someone really means to you due to all the hard work and planning involved. Even if you are not a regular Julia Child in the kitchen, you can make a delicious and well-put-together meal in no time. Pasta, for instance, is something that is almost foolproof, and with a few final touches like garlic bread and fresh herbs, it can look like it was made at one of the swankiest of restaurants.



8. Get in Touch with your Inner Child

Sometimes our lives get so weighed down with the pressures of school and work that we forget to have a little fun. This Valentine's Day, head over to your local arcade for a day of fun and friendly competition. Getting out and acting like a child while laughing hysterically the entire time can be the best gift either of you has ever received. If you are feeling extra adventurous, place a little wager with your valentine, such as the loser has to give the winner a foot rub. It is a win-win situation!

7. Pitch a Tent

Romance is just a step away. Grab your old camping supplies and set them up in your backyard for a night out under the stars. Make s'mores and roast marshmallows by the fire pit and leave all the distractions back in the house. Now is the perfect time of the year, so grab those sleeping bags and cuddle up.

6. Common Interests

Get out and do something you both enjoy. Whether it is going to see your favorite local band, comedian or that new movie you were both itching to watch, doing something you both like will ensure that everyone is happy this Valentine's Day.

5. Couple's Massages

A professional massage does not have to burn a hole in your pocket. Most places have special discounts just in time for Valentine's Day. A couple's massage is a great way to relax and bond with your sweetie. Who does not love a massage?

4. Reenact Your First Date

This Valentine's Day, remind your sweetie how it all began. If you and your partner have been together for a long time, one of the best dates can be to reenact your first one. Take your partner to the same location (or somewhere similar if you have moved), and try to make things just as they were the first time. This can spark the romance that you once had when your relationship was fresh and new.



3. Send a Handwritten Letter

Nowadays, we are so caught up in the latest technology and social networking sites, such as Facebook and Twitter, we often forget about the ancient art of "snail mail." Taking the time to sit down and write a letter, rather than just sending an email, is more personal and will show your partner just how much you care. Tell him or her how you feel, reminisce on past events or just wish them a happy Valentine's Day; it does not have to be hard.



2. Weekend Getaway

Even if you do not have the funds for a full-fledged vacation, rent a hotel on the nearest beach and pretend. Make sure to turn off your cell phones and leave your laptops at home; those things can wait. You do not have to go far to spend a relaxing weekend with someone you care about. With Ft. Lauderdale beach just minutes away, you have a world-class vacation destination in your own backyard. Take advantage!

1. Spend Quality Time Together

No matter what you do for Valentine's Day this year, the best gift you can give each other is quality time. Even if that means just ordering a pizza and renting a movie, it is about who you are with rather than what you are doing. We all get caught up in the busyness of everyday life, so this is your chance to really show your partner how much he or she means to you.


Don't have a special someone to spend Valentine's Day with this year? Think again: You have got yourself and your friends. Remember, you do not have to have candy hearts and flowers, dinner reservations or even a date to enjoy a great Valentine's Day. Make this Valentine's Day a day to love yourself and those around you. You will be glad you did!

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